October 21st, 2024
by Oluseye Ashiru
by Oluseye Ashiru
Hey Kingdom Moms!
You’ve made it! You’ve survived the crazy mornings, the endless laundry, the meal prep, the toddler tantrums, and the school projects. You’ve fed your body (maybe), nourished your kids (hopefully), and kept the house from turning into a complete disaster (fingers crossed). But now, here you are—sitting down for the umpteenth time today, completely drained. Physically, mentally, and spiritually.
And let’s be real—sometimes, even though we know we should pray, we just don’t have the energy. You're exhausted, your brain feels like mashed potatoes, and the last thing you want to do is open your Bible and start reciting Scripture.
But guess what? God gets it.
If you’ve ever wondered how to pray when you feel like you’re just too tired, too overwhelmed, or too “done” to pray—this blog is for you. Let’s talk about how to stay spiritually connected when life’s demands have you running on empty.
You’ve made it! You’ve survived the crazy mornings, the endless laundry, the meal prep, the toddler tantrums, and the school projects. You’ve fed your body (maybe), nourished your kids (hopefully), and kept the house from turning into a complete disaster (fingers crossed). But now, here you are—sitting down for the umpteenth time today, completely drained. Physically, mentally, and spiritually.
And let’s be real—sometimes, even though we know we should pray, we just don’t have the energy. You're exhausted, your brain feels like mashed potatoes, and the last thing you want to do is open your Bible and start reciting Scripture.
But guess what? God gets it.
If you’ve ever wondered how to pray when you feel like you’re just too tired, too overwhelmed, or too “done” to pray—this blog is for you. Let’s talk about how to stay spiritually connected when life’s demands have you running on empty.
The Reality of Exhaustion
First, let’s acknowledge the obvious. Being a mom is hard. There’s a reason why they say it’s a full-time job (and that’s just for one kid!). Add in the extra layers of family, marriage, work, community, and personal aspirations, and you’ve got a recipe for burnout.
But even in the middle of all the exhaustion, you’re still a beloved daughter of God, and He wants to strengthen you. He’s not expecting you to be “on” all the time or praying in full sentences every hour of the day (though wouldn’t that be great?). What He wants is relationship. He desires to commune with you, even in the messy, tired, and chaotic moments. And here's the good news: He knows you’re tired!
Romans 8:26-27 says, “In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.” You don’t have to have perfect words or long prayers. God knows your heart, even when you're too exhausted to speak.
But even in the middle of all the exhaustion, you’re still a beloved daughter of God, and He wants to strengthen you. He’s not expecting you to be “on” all the time or praying in full sentences every hour of the day (though wouldn’t that be great?). What He wants is relationship. He desires to commune with you, even in the messy, tired, and chaotic moments. And here's the good news: He knows you’re tired!
Romans 8:26-27 says, “In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.” You don’t have to have perfect words or long prayers. God knows your heart, even when you're too exhausted to speak.
So, How Do We Pray When We’re Tired?
Alright, here’s the good part. I’m going to give you some practical, doable tips on how to pray when you’re completely wiped out. No fancy words or rituals, just real, raw ways to stay spiritually connected to God even when you’re running on fumes.
- Short Prayers, Big Impact
You don’t need to pray for hours. A simple, heartfelt prayer is enough to reconnect with God. You might feel like you’re too tired to pray, but the beauty of prayer is that it doesn’t have to be long or elaborate. Even a quick “God, I need You” or “Help me, Lord” can be powerful. Romans 10:13 says, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” Don’t overcomplicate it. Keep it simple, and let your heart cry out to Him. - Pray Without Words
Sometimes, you don’t have the energy to speak at all. But that doesn’t mean you can’t pray. The Holy Spirit knows our hearts and groans with us. Take a few moments to sit quietly before God, breathe deeply, and simply be present with Him. Let your emotions and thoughts rise to the surface—whether it’s exhaustion, frustration, or joy. God hears your heart, even when there are no words.
- Turn Your Routine Into a Prayer
Not every prayer has to happen in a designated quiet time. Turn your routine activities into moments of connection with God. As you do the dishes, ask Him to give you strength. While folding laundry, thank Him for the blessings in your life. When you’re driving, pray for your family’s safety. You don’t have to be still to pray—prayer is a lifestyle. Psalm 121:8 says, “The Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore.” God is with you in every moment. - Use Scripture as Your Prayer
If you’re too tired to come up with your own words, let Scripture do the talking. The Bible is filled with powerful prayers and promises that you can speak over yourself, your family, and your situation. For example, pray over your kids with Proverbs 3:5-6: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight.”
- Incorporate Worship
Sometimes, prayer feels too hard when you’re tired, so don’t be afraid to turn to worship music instead. Worship can be a form of prayer, as it helps your spirit realign with God. Play some of your favorite worship songs in the background as you go about your day. Let the music fill your home and your heart with peace, joy, and connection to God. Psalm 100:2 says, “Worship the Lord with gladness; come before Him with joyful songs.” Let the joy of the Lord strengthen you.
Why It Matters: Strength in Weakness
I know it can feel discouraging when you’re too tired to pray the way you think you “should.” But here’s the truth—God is so much bigger than your tiredness. He sees your heart, He hears your prayers, and He responds with grace and mercy.
Remember what 2 Corinthians 12:9 says, “But He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” Your tiredness doesn’t disqualify you from God’s presence. In fact, it may just be the place where His grace shines the brightest.
Remember what 2 Corinthians 12:9 says, “But He said to me, ‘My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.’ Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” Your tiredness doesn’t disqualify you from God’s presence. In fact, it may just be the place where His grace shines the brightest.
The Challenge: Prayer Is for the Real You
Don’t wait for the “perfect” moment to pray. You don’t need to have it all together. You don’t need a perfectly quiet house or an undistracted mind. You just need to bring the real, messy, tired you before God. The great thing is—He’s already there, waiting for you.
So, if you’re tired today (and let’s face it, you probably are), take a few minutes to pray—whether in words, silence, or worship. Let your spirit be nourished, and trust that God will give you the strength to keep going.
So, if you’re tired today (and let’s face it, you probably are), take a few minutes to pray—whether in words, silence, or worship. Let your spirit be nourished, and trust that God will give you the strength to keep going.
In the next blog, we’ll explore how to handle mom guilt and how to balance your calling as a mom with your personal and spiritual needs. It’s time to let go of guilt and embrace the grace God has for you!
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