July 1st, 2024
by Oluseye Ashiru
by Oluseye Ashiru
Hey, Kingdom Moms! Welcome back to our series on faith, motherhood, and career. Today, we’re tackling the big one: balance. Or, as I like to call it, the "always-changing dance of life.” Some days it feels like you’ve got all the pieces in place, and other days… well, let’s just say some things don’t make it off the floor!
It’s easy to get overwhelmed and wonder if a balanced life is even possible. Let’s explore some practical, faith-centered strategies to help you manage it all—without burning out or losing sight of what truly matters.
It’s easy to get overwhelmed and wonder if a balanced life is even possible. Let’s explore some practical, faith-centered strategies to help you manage it all—without burning out or losing sight of what truly matters.
Ditch the Myth of Perfect Balance
Let’s start by kicking “perfect balance” out the door. Real balance isn’t about perfection; it’s about being adaptable, prioritizing what matters most, and letting go of the rest.
Some days, your career will need more focus; other days, family might take center stage. And that’s okay! God never called us to be perfect jugglers. Remember what Jesus said in Matthew 11:28-30: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Balancing isn’t about achieving a perfect schedule; it’s about finding rest in Him amidst it all.
So, stop chasing perfection, and start focusing on being present. Life is a journey with ups and downs—God will guide you through every twist and turn if you lean into His grace.
Some days, your career will need more focus; other days, family might take center stage. And that’s okay! God never called us to be perfect jugglers. Remember what Jesus said in Matthew 11:28-30: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Balancing isn’t about achieving a perfect schedule; it’s about finding rest in Him amidst it all.
So, stop chasing perfection, and start focusing on being present. Life is a journey with ups and downs—God will guide you through every twist and turn if you lean into His grace.
Set Faith-Focused Priorities
It’s easy to let everything feel urgent, but some things are more important than others. Take time to get clear on your top priorities as a mom and as a professional. Pray for guidance, and ask God to help you align your daily decisions with His will.
When you make a habit of prioritizing in faith, you’ll find it’s easier to say “yes” to the things that matter and “no” to the things that don’t. Colossians 3:2 reminds us, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” Keep that eternal perspective, and your priorities will naturally start to shift toward what truly counts.
When you make a habit of prioritizing in faith, you’ll find it’s easier to say “yes” to the things that matter and “no” to the things that don’t. Colossians 3:2 reminds us, “Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.” Keep that eternal perspective, and your priorities will naturally start to shift toward what truly counts.
Embrace the Power of ‘No’ (and ‘Not Now’)
Ladies, let’s talk about the word “no”—it’s powerful, necessary, and, yes, biblical. Saying no is a form of self-care and wisdom. If Jesus Himself stepped away from the crowds to rest and pray (Mark 6:31), then we, too, have permission to set boundaries.
Whether it’s declining an extra project at work or rescheduling a playdate, remember that saying no now doesn’t mean forever. It simply means you’re protecting your time and energy for what’s truly needed in this season.
Whether it’s declining an extra project at work or rescheduling a playdate, remember that saying no now doesn’t mean forever. It simply means you’re protecting your time and energy for what’s truly needed in this season.
Create Rhythms, Not Routines
Routines can sometimes feel restrictive, especially when life as a mom is anything but predictable. Instead, consider creating rhythms—flexible patterns that keep you grounded but leave room for the unexpected.
This might look like dedicating the early morning to prayer and planning, carving out focused work hours during the day, and having family time each evening. Rhythms help us stay organized but allow for grace when things don’t go as planned. Ephesians 5:15-16 encourages us to be wise with our time, making the most of each moment. Finding a rhythm that works for you and your family is key to thriving!
This might look like dedicating the early morning to prayer and planning, carving out focused work hours during the day, and having family time each evening. Rhythms help us stay organized but allow for grace when things don’t go as planned. Ephesians 5:15-16 encourages us to be wise with our time, making the most of each moment. Finding a rhythm that works for you and your family is key to thriving!
Lean Into Community for Support
No mom is an island. We were made for community—whether that’s friends, family, or other moms who get what you’re going through. Find people who will pray with you, encourage you, and maybe even watch the kids so you can catch your breath!
It’s easy to feel guilty for needing help, but remember that God gave us community for a reason. Galatians 6:2 tells us to “carry each other’s burdens.” Embrace the support around you; it’s a beautiful part of God’s design.
It’s easy to feel guilty for needing help, but remember that God gave us community for a reason. Galatians 6:2 tells us to “carry each other’s burdens.” Embrace the support around you; it’s a beautiful part of God’s design.
Trust God with Your Ambitions
You might wonder if it’s okay to dream big in your career while being a mom. Spoiler alert: Absolutely. God delights in our ambitions when they’re rooted in Him. Psalm 37:4 says, “Delight yourself in the LORD, and He will give you the desires of your heart.”
So, dream those God-given dreams without guilt, mama! Pursuing them can be a powerful example for your kids of what it means to follow God’s calling fully.
So, dream those God-given dreams without guilt, mama! Pursuing them can be a powerful example for your kids of what it means to follow God’s calling fully.
In Summary: Balance is a Journey, Not a Destination
Balancing work, family, faith, and everything in between is challenging, but it’s also an opportunity to grow deeper in your faith. With each day, you’re becoming stronger, more flexible, and more anchored in God’s love.
Remember, you’re not called to be perfect—you’re called to be faithful. Embrace the beauty of balance as a journey, knowing that God is with you every step of the way. Keep praying, keep seeking, and know that your efforts to balance it all are deeply valuable and seen by Him.
Remember, you’re not called to be perfect—you’re called to be faithful. Embrace the beauty of balance as a journey, knowing that God is with you every step of the way. Keep praying, keep seeking, and know that your efforts to balance it all are deeply valuable and seen by Him.
Stay tuned for Part 3, where we’ll dive into practical tips on managing time like a pro while staying spiritually grounded. You’ve got this, Kingdom Mom!
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