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How to Prepare Your Child for College or University: A Faith-Filled & Practical Guide for Parents

College and university life marks one of the most significant transitions in a young person’s life — and in yours as a parent. The shift from living at home to navigating independence brings excitement, challenges, and countless opportunities for growth. As a parent, you play a critical role in helping your child prepare academically, emotionally, spiritually, and practically for this new chapter.

In this guide, we’ll walk through practical steps and faith-based strategies to set your child up for success as they step into their higher education journey.
1. Start the Conversation Early
Preparing for college or university is about more than grades and applications. Begin talking early about life skills, budgeting, time management, and healthy boundaries. This will give your child a strong foundation before they step onto campus.

Tip: Discuss real-life scenarios they might face, such as dealing with peer pressure, finding healthy friendships, or balancing study and rest.

2. Strengthen Their Faith Before They Leave
In a college environment, your child’s beliefs will be challenged. Encourage them to deepen their relationship with God through personal Bible study, prayer, and connecting with a church community on or near campus.

Prayer for Your Child:

“Lord, anchor my child in Your Word and truth. Help them to stand firm in their faith, even when challenged, and shine Your light in every space they enter.”


3. Equip Them with Life Skills
Before moving into a dorm or apartment, ensure your child knows how to:
  • Cook simple, healthy meals
  • Do laundry and keep their living space clean
  • Budget and manage bank accounts
  • Schedule and plan effectively

These skills reduce stress and build confidence.
4. Support Emotional and Mental Wellness
The first semester can feel overwhelming. Teach your child how to recognize signs of stress or burnout and where to find help — whether through campus counseling services, student health centers, or supportive peers.
Encourage open communication so they feel safe reaching out to you when needed.

5. Prepare for Academic Responsibility
Help your child plan their study habits, understand the importance of attending lectures, and know how to seek academic support early if needed.

6. Pray Over Their Transition
Prayer remains one of the most powerful tools we have as parents. Cover their academic year in prayer — from their classes and professors to their roommates and friendships.

Back To School Resource for Parents

If you’d like to pray intentionally over your child’s school year, our 31 Bold Prayers for Back-to-School book is designed for parents like you. It includes daily prayers, declarations, and practical activities to help you cover your child in faith from the first day to the last.

? Get your copy here: familiesarising.org/backtoschool

Oluseye Ashiru

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